There was a time that Memorial Day signified school ending, summer starting, the sweet taste of cold watermelon on a hot day, and the sound of sizzling hot dogs on the BBQ. Our view of Memorial Day has been drastically changed by our mission of serving the Gold Star and Veteran communities. It’s personal. It’s raw. And it’s important. 

Gold Star Spouse, Melissa Kasinger, reminded us not only how important this day is, but WHY it holds so much reverence. “Joseph, you always used to say a man dies twice. Once when he physically dies, and again when his name is spoken for the last time. By that definition, you are still alive in so many of us.” 

It is so important to truly understand the sacrifice and side effects of bravery and service. Our freedoms were secured by men and women who voluntarily stepped forward and answered the call, aware of the risk and chose to go anyway. Now, let us pick up where they left off. 

One of our Gold Star spouses so eloquently put it, “For the families that have lost a loved one, and to those who have lost a comrade in arms to the ravages of war, it is a day of honor and reaffirming the promise to not let their sacrifice have been in vain.” As we look into the eyes of these families, we want to join them in their promise to never let their sacrifice be in vain. So, on this day of remembrance, join us in taking a moment to acknowledge and honor each of these men who paid the ultimate price. For us. 

Each one of these men are fathers and husbands. These are not faraway names etched in stone. These are men who lived right down the street from you, who trained down the street from you, whose children are growing up in your neighborhoods, and are loved each and every day by their families. Our greatest wish is that you would remember them, keep saying their names, pray for their families, and keep striving to make our nation worth their sacrifice. 

Our country owes a great debt that can never be repaid. We thank God for blessing us with the men and women who selflessly served and sacrificed for the well being of their families and fellow Americans.

VALOR ADVENTURES 13: DINO QUEST

Our October Adventure is our most elaborate and ornate adventure of the year, and 2024 was no different. We rolled out as much fanfare for our paleolithic friends as possible! After all, how many times in your life are you given a chance to battle with T-Rexes, Raptors, and security forces to save the day?

VALOR ADVENTURES 11: FREEDOM FAIRWAYS

We took a new approach on our Father’s Day Adventure this year, having spent the last few on different football fields. We traded the artificial turf in for the fairway at The Rancho Bernardo Inn and Golf Course. This adventure expanded our imaginations, and was heavily influenced by how much fun we personally think golf carts are.

VALOR ADVENTURES 12: VALOR GAMES

Every Father’s Day weekend, we host one of our most important adventures of the year. For the last 7 years, we have spent the day before Father’s Day with our Gold Star Families. This has given us a chance to soften the harshness that this weekend can bring to these families, who no longer get to spend it with their dads in physical form.

VALOR ADVENTURES 09: BATTLE FIELD

Every year, on Father’s Day weekend, we host our summer adventure. It’s the perfect way to celebrate the end of the school year, the start of summer, the beginning of summer memories, but far more importantly, it’s the perfect way to honor their fathers.

VALOR ADVENTURES 08: THE HEIST

The first adventure of the year always has a sort of special spark to it. We’ve all enjoyed the cozy season and the delights it brings with it, but we are ready to be together, ready for adventure, ready to stretch our legs, and ready for a new beginning. This adventure was special in its own right.

VALOR ADVENTURES 04: ZOMBIE HUNT

Active Valor hosted its first ever Zombie Hunt, where Gold Star children and their veteran mentors had to save the day and complete their mission without being overpowered by ‘the hoard’.

Capturing Hearts (and Flags)

Stepping onto Rawhide Ranch is like taking a step back in time, to a place in your childhood you wish you still had unlimited access to. Bonsall, California is home to a very special piece of land that thousands of children consider to be home away from home every year.

GOLD STAR SPOUSE RANGE DAY

Many of our Gold Star Spouses remain courageously within the role of sole provider—provider of safety, comfort and everything else in the long list of needs from a young family. Being put into the “protector and defender” role is a daunting prospect, especially when you have never needed that title or skillset before. What better way to bolster these women’s skillsets regarding safety and protection than to hold a Range Day for them.

R.EMEMBER E.VERYONE D.EPLOYED

Active Valor is proud to partner with ADS to send care packages to our troops overseas. Thanks to ADS, Active Valor was able to Remember Everyone Deployed, as our veterans packaged countless care packages to ship overseas.